Tuesday 27 August 2013

Keeping A Personal Diary: Blog 168

Good morning!

So blogging resumes for me this morning after a few days of retreat which included a wonderful spa day at the Sanctuary in Covent Garden http://www.sanctuary.com/, a women only space for time out in tranquil and relaxing surroundings. I hadn't been for a few years and although it does cost a lot - the immediate impact of walking in does the trick. Swimming pools, jacuzzi, steam rooms, koi carp pool and more create a conducive atmosphere for relaxation and reflection. I had my notebook with me and used a part of the time to allow new ideas and thoughts to just flow. 

In the noisy busy world its sometimes hard to find uninterrupted space - especially as 24/7 availability seems to have become part of our culture since the birth of the internet. Sure that may have its advantages in some ways, ie; if we want to do late night shopping! But a headful of noise can often drown out the very source of our own unique voice and creativity. And we need to spend time listening to it especially if we want to make authentic work.

I have always been a diary writer - well since I got my first Lett's Brownie diary in 1968 and have continued to do so all my life. When I recently moved I piled all of my diaries together and they filled up two large plastic crates! They are full of a life, and probably largely only of interest to me - but perhaps one day my kids or grandkids will enjoy reading them, if only to hear stories and learn more about their own family of origin and its history. 

Keeping a diary was a big habit of my small group of friends at school too, and I am not sure who of them still keeps one now. Often when the six of us meet up we talk about these and the shared stories from our teenage years. They provide a great source of amusement and we can enjoy a good laugh at our younger selves -  I certainly do!  

Writing, especially self-exploratory writing done on a regular basis, has been linked to emotional well-being and a strong sense of self-knowledge and self-trust.

Many people find that writing is therapeutic, it helps to release tension, and it can even be used as a form of meditation. Writing gives insight, it gives perspective, it’s a problem-solving technique, and it can serve as an outlet for bottled up emotions, unresolved trauma, or for creative expression. Writing a regular diary is a great way to introduce self-exploratory writing into your life.

If you wish to establish a regular practice, one approach is to buy a notebook, set a timer for twenty minutes, and simply write whatever comes to mind without stopping until the timer goes off. However, there are two writing techniques or methods–which can help make your diary writing sessions more satisfying, efficient, and effective.

These two methods are the following:


Proprioceptive Writing
Morning Pages.
 


Both of these methods were introduced at the recent creative writing course I attended at Cortijo Romero in Spain led by playwright Diane Samuels. http://www.dianesamuels.com/ and I just love them. 

Cortijo Romero
So what are these methods and how do they work?


Proprioceptive Writing

Proprioceptive Writing is a writing practice created in 1976 by Linda Trichter Metcalf. She writes about it in her book, Writing the Mind Alive: The Proprioceptive Method for Finding Your Authentic Voice


“Proprioception” comes from the Latin “proprius” meaning “one’s own”

This writing practice consists of listening to your thoughts and slowing down the thought process to the time it takes to write down what you’re thinking. It involves inner listening and an honest exploration of your thoughts and feelings. In addition, it connects your mind with your emotions, and it strengthens your sense of self.

To carry out this practice you simply find a place where you will not be disturbed for twenty-five minutes; you light a candle, turn on Baroque music, and place a stack of unlined white paper and a pen in front of you. The candle is meant to create a sacred space for your writing and to help you focus, and Baroque music has been shown to induce the alpha brain frequency, which is the level of mind commonly associated with meditation.

To begin you simply take the first thought that enters your mind and write it down. You then proceed to write down what you’re thinking, what you’re feeling, what interests you, and what concerns you. As you write, don’t worry about grammar, punctuation, word usage, sentence structure, style or eloquence.

Ask yourself: “What do I mean by _____?” whenever something you write down catches your attention. This will help you to amplify that thought, and will allow you to reflect on it more meaningfully. Proprioceptive Writing differs from stream of consciousness writing in that you’re not asked to simply write without thinking; quite the opposite, you’re instructed to reflect on your thoughts.

Although you’re asked to listen to yourself and to reflect on what you’re thinking, you’re not to judge or critique what you’re writing down. Think of yourself as an archeologist on a dig, curiously scrutinizing and examining each thought, without judgment. At the end you can read what you wrote out loud to yourself so that you can hear your thoughts again in your own voice. This practice will help you to explore your mind, reconnect with your inner self and with your emotions, and find your authentic voice.


Morning Pages

Mental clutter or debris stands in the way of our creative potential. In the book, “The Artist’s Way at Work”, Artist's Way at Work: Riding the Dragon: Amazon.co.uk: Mark Bryan, Julia Cameron the authors offer Morning Pages as a tool to help you clear out this debris. As the name suggests, Morning Pages are to be done in the morning; the waking mind is more open to free-form writing and can more easily jump from one subject to another without the constraints set by reason.

When writing your Morning Pages there is no time limit, instead, you’re asked to write until you’ve filled three pages in long hand. This takes some people twenty minutes, while it takes others forty or forty-five minutes. You simply write down anything that comes to mind for three pages and then stop. Your writing can be about the things that you hope to accomplish during the day, questions you need answered, problems you need to solve, and so on.

Morning Pages help us to prioritize and organise our days according to our authentic needs and agendas. Think of them as a holding spot for your thoughts, feelings, and ideas. In addition, it’s a place for inspirations to emerge.

As an added benefit, Morning Pages help us to identify our different interior voices. The authors of the “The Artist’s Way at Work” explain that we all possess the following inner voices: the Tyrant, the Rebel, the Inner Critic, the Inner Mentor, and the Inner Child, among others. As you progress with your Morning Pages you will learn to recognise each of these voices and get better at identifying which ones to ignore and which ones you need to pay closer attention to.


Whatever method you choose, I would strongly encourage you to begin a regular journaling practice. Many people have what they call a “sacred or solitary hour” in the morning, which they use for meditation, contemplation, or simply to gather their thoughts before the day officially begins. Consider creating a sacred space for yourself every morning in which there is nothing but you and a blank sheet of paper inviting you to set forth your thoughts, feelings, needs and wants and to reconnect with yourself.
“The act of putting pen to paper encourages pause for thought, this in turn makes us think more deeply about life, which helps us regain our equilibrium." - Norbet Platt

Have a great start to your week and enjoy whatever you write! 

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